The discussion transitions into an examination of relationships, focusing on the challenges and obstacles that arise within them. The hosts candidly explore how introspection and communication can serve as tools for fostering healthier and more sustainable connections with partners. Whether touching on the dynamics between partners or the influences of gender norms, the conversation emphasizes the importance of self-awareness and mutual respect. By sharing personal experiences and inviting listeners to reflect on their own paths, the episode offers valuable insights into achieving meaningful growth together.
SPEAKER 09 :
I can’t hide myself I don’t expect you to understand I just hope I can explain What it’s like to be a man It’s a lonely road And they don’t care about what you know It’s not about how you feel But what you provide inside that home
SPEAKER 10 :
Being a man is what you make it. You can’t always live up to expectations. You try to please everybody while you struggle so you fake it and end up out of balance compromising situations as a good man.
SPEAKER 07 :
Welcome to A Guy’s Perspective, where they discuss real-life topics that men today are dealing with, whether married, single parent, or just single. We invite you to call in to this live program with your comments and questions. And here they are.
SPEAKER 05 :
Leave me alone.
SPEAKER 14 :
How’s everybody doing today? We’re at KLZ 560 AM. You can reach the guys at 303-477-5600. Again, that’s 303-477-5600. Hope everybody had an excellent 4th of July. Happy birthday, America. And let’s get into our topic. You know what I’m saying? I know there’s some people that are… I can’t complain about my 4th.
SPEAKER 13 :
No, mine was good, too.
SPEAKER 03 :
I had war, you know… War wounds.
SPEAKER 13 :
Yeah, it was popping off, man. You caught fire.
SPEAKER 14 :
Getting into our topic. Andre kind of gave us this topic for everybody who’s wondering about the song at the start. I know it’s kind of different, but we’re kind of taking it from… We don’t normally give a Bible verse at the start, but we’re taking our topic from Genesis 39, 12, and it says, “…she caught him by his garment, saying, Lie with me, and he left his garment in her hand and fled and got himself out.” That’s coming from Genesis 39, 12. And if anybody doesn’t understand that scripture, Joseph got sold by his brothers. I’m a firm believer that Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob, like Joseph came from such a dysfunctional family. Like their whole generation was dysfunctional. But anyway, to speed this up, there are dysfunctional homes out there in America. I mean, dude, anybody who thinks their home’s got it right, that’s a dysfunctional statement right there.
SPEAKER 13 :
Yeah, it’s delusional.
SPEAKER 14 :
So anyway, he gets sold into slavery. Fast forwarding, Potiphar’s wife wanted him. He leaves his coat with her. He’s like, no, I’m out on this situation. He ends up in jail. She throws him in jail. What is up with today’s society? And with women like hitting guys with like restraining orders, domestic violence orders, like good guys. I’m not talking some douchebag guy who’s sitting there, you know.
SPEAKER 13 :
I mean, I want to touch on that scripture first. I mean, that’s the first time I’ve ever heard it called a garment that she grabbed him by.
SPEAKER 14 :
Because isn’t it a coat of many colors or something like that?
SPEAKER 13 :
No, no, no. I think actually in Scripture she grabbed him by his manhood.
SPEAKER 03 :
I don’t think he grabbed a coat of many colors.
SPEAKER 14 :
No, because a coat of many colors is what his dad made him, right?
SPEAKER 03 :
That doesn’t mean he was wearing it.
SPEAKER 14 :
No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no. He wasn’t wearing it, but he was wearing something, wasn’t he?
SPEAKER 13 :
I know for sure. I know for sure because in Scripture it says that they took home the coat of many colors. When they said… Oh, that’s right. They took it off. That’s right.
SPEAKER 14 :
That’s right. Because they had to kill an animal and make it seem like a beast tore Joseph up or something.
SPEAKER 03 :
And then they brought the code home and showed it to the father.
SPEAKER 14 :
Yeah, he’s right. He’s 100% right. But so he leaves his garment, he leaves, and then he gets thrown in jail. I’m talking about going from bad to worse, right?
SPEAKER 13 :
Yeah, yeah. Just because somebody had it out for him or had it oxford. No, because he wouldn’t sleep with her. Right. He’d turn her down. Yeah. She was sleeping with all the slaves. That’s a good point he’s making.
SPEAKER 03 :
She might have.
SPEAKER 13 :
That’s a very good point she made. Hey, it was her practice.
SPEAKER 14 :
So I guess what we’re saying is you can call us at 303-477-5600 for a guy’s perspective. And if you have a situation of where you went through a divorce and it turned bad, maybe you had a restraining order against you. Maybe you had a DV charge. Call in and tell us guys about it. We would really like to know.
SPEAKER 03 :
But how many people in those type of relationships, you know, can blame? the significant other when, you know, they should take on responsibility of themselves. You can say, oh, she’s a bad woman and this and that. Yeah. Well, where’s your part in all this?
SPEAKER 13 :
No, you’re right. You’re right, B. The thing is, everybody blames everybody else until they sit by themselves and they become introspective. No, you’re telling the truth. But, yeah, at the beginning, it’s the other person’s fault.
SPEAKER 03 :
But, you know, to bring it up about Joseph Potiphar’s wife, right?
SPEAKER 14 :
I don’t think it says her name, though. I think it just says Potiphar’s wife.
SPEAKER 03 :
Yeah, Potiphar’s wife. When you think about, you know, all of the evil people in the Bible, I mean, I think the women stand out the most because – The woman that tried to kill all the prophets. The lady, Jezebel. Oh, Jezebel or whatever her name is. When you think about all the people that have done so much wicked in the Bible, that’s top three for me. Oh, really? Oh, yeah, for sure.
SPEAKER 14 :
What just happened? You’re with Joseph?
SPEAKER 03 :
No, with Jezebel.
SPEAKER 14 :
Oh, gotcha.
SPEAKER 03 :
Out of the women and men, you could say, oh, women are worse than men, men are worse than women. But in that aspect, I would say the girls stand out more than the men.
SPEAKER 13 :
well i’ll say in the instant who’s out who knows about to kill every well but here’s here’s what happens though is uh people take pieces of scripture and then they use it to demonize or cut at people right oh and so and so then we say spirit of jezebel is like the immediate go-to for a woman that we think is uh um not a good person not a good person or something like that you know And that’s not fair. So I think there’s been a lot of evil and wicked exposed in the Bible, but it’s not just predominantly women.
SPEAKER 14 :
For sure. Definitely not. I think the Bible encompasses everything, right? It talks about all the guys that were bad, all the women that were bad.
SPEAKER 04 :
Yeah.
SPEAKER 14 :
I just think in society, right, like… Maybe we’re being a little biased right here because we’re a bunch of men on the radio. I mean, because I think guys do some crazy crap. You know what I’m saying?
SPEAKER 13 :
We admit it, ladies. We admit it.
SPEAKER 14 :
Yeah, yeah. I’m admitting it right now.
SPEAKER 13 :
I don’t admit it.
SPEAKER 14 :
You don’t admit doing anything bad, B?
SPEAKER 13 :
No. Hey, no. Oh. You can’t bury your head in the sand and not get a girl. If you don’t have a woman, then, yeah, you’re not going to cause any trouble.
SPEAKER 14 :
Guys, guys, I’m telling you right now, when I take myself and I put a mirror up in front of me, I’ve done some really bad crap. You know what I’m saying? No, no, no, I have, dude. I have fallen on my face more times than I can count. Been through a divorce. Well, and the success is getting backed up. I’ve cheated. I’ve lied. You name it, and I’ve done it at one time. So I’m guilty.
SPEAKER 13 :
Same here.
SPEAKER 14 :
And I think everybody is. So for you to turn around and be like, ah, no, I’m perfect. I don’t know how that – I don’t know.
SPEAKER 03 :
I didn’t say I didn’t sin. I just said I was perfect in relationships.
SPEAKER 14 :
Perfect in relationships.
SPEAKER 03 :
Elaborate on that. Perfect in relationships.
SPEAKER 14 :
Can anybody be perfect in a relationship? By not being in one.
SPEAKER 1 :
No.
SPEAKER 14 :
There you go. That’s the only way you can be perfect in a relationship is by not being in one. It’s impossible to be perfect.
SPEAKER 13 :
The default is to have been like you’re your own litmus test.
SPEAKER 14 :
Oh, man. You know what I’m saying? No, no, no.
SPEAKER 03 :
You’re your own testament. I would say I’m perfect now because I took a step back. I looked at all my mistakes from prior relationships and said, I’m not going to make that mistake. I’m not going to make the same mistakes that I’ve. done in the past that have ruined my relationships and brought it into my new one which i would say is growth in a perfect relationship for myself and the growth that i’ve provided
SPEAKER 14 :
Well, let me ask you this, okay? Because have you guys ever heard of the book, something like guys are from Mars, women are from Venus or something like that?
SPEAKER 13 :
Men are from Mars, women from Venus, yeah.
SPEAKER 14 :
So it talks about, if I remember right, it talks about setting up a list of like all the negative things you’ve done. Have you ever done that before? Just like take out a piece of notebook paper?
SPEAKER 13 :
Pros and cons on self?
SPEAKER 14 :
Yeah, and write about all the stupid stuff you do in a relationship and – That causes you to have like all like the anxiety and distrust for people that you care about. Have you ever done that before?
SPEAKER 13 :
I haven’t done that like in practice, but I’ve certainly racked my brain a lot, you know, laying there at night and stuff. So not writing it down though. But it is said, if you want to learn about somebody, read. If you want to learn about yourself, write.
SPEAKER 14 :
Right. So here’s another thing that, and we’ll go right to you, Brian, but in a relationship, have you ever just listened to the person you care about talking? You just shut up and let them talk for 15 minutes without interjecting? Tell me that ain’t the hardest thing to do.
SPEAKER 13 :
We all got stuff to say.
SPEAKER 14 :
i just i avoided that one stuff you know what i’m saying i think in a relationship the hardest thing is the communication barrier but why why because because like he said you always have something more to say you always want to defend your actions you always that’s a good point he’s bringing up like one of my best friends just got married well he’s not my best friend any longer but
SPEAKER 03 :
Sorry for your breakup. Yeah, sorry for my breakup. We’re still friends. We just, you know. No, best friend. But, you know, he just got married, right? And two years into the marriage, he needed marriage counseling. So he goes before a pastor. And it was just a simple fix. These guys were fighting at each other so bad. And just to come to find out, it was one simple communication. And it’s changed their marriage. And they’ve been married for 20 years. One small thing.
SPEAKER 13 :
And communication is key. That’s the most important thing. And it’s not bad for people to get premarital counseling.
SPEAKER 14 :
I heard a man say one time that if you found a rose, that crap comes with thorns, buddy. That was a song.
SPEAKER 13 :
Every rose has a thorn.
SPEAKER 14 :
No, no, no. I heard this dude say that. And it makes sense that if you find somebody that you appreciate, you care about, you love, and if that’s your actual rose, there’s going to be thorns on it.
SPEAKER 03 :
You know what I’m saying? This is right up my alley, this topic, because I’ve always wanted to be a marriage counselor.
SPEAKER 14 :
plumb plunger of love or plumber of love are we taking the plunge of love too right now are we like the plunge of love too like no but but i mean you see what i’m saying guys are so quick to turn around and point out the faults of women but yet we don’t see our own faults like but why do you think that is well i think it’s human nature it’s not necessarily just men Oh, you just think it’s human nature in general?
SPEAKER 13 :
Human nature to accuse and point and think that everybody else is the problem. But hey, man, if we’ve been in broken relationship after broken relationship, we have to understand that we are the common denominator.
SPEAKER 14 :
That is the truth.
SPEAKER 13 :
But that ain’t just for divorce.
SPEAKER 14 :
We got to work on self.
SPEAKER 03 :
That’s just in relationship in general. Yes. But guys, we can sit here and give people advice all day long. But most of the time, people, it’s just in one ear and out the other. No, it’s not. Oh, it is. I don’t believe that at all. I don’t believe that at all. I believe that full heartedly.
SPEAKER 14 :
You don’t believe if you… Because we’re talking to a bunch of men right now.
SPEAKER 03 :
If I give you a five… Oh, just like I was going to bring. Have you ever… What was that? The money, the seven steps to… Oh, baby steps. Oh, Ramsey. Dave Ramsey’s baby steps. Dave Ramsey, okay. You could hear that all day long, right? But if you don’t follow the steps, it ain’t going to work for you. True. So I could come on this radio and give you three steps to changing your marriage, to changing your relationships… But if you ain’t going to do it, it ain’t going to matter.
SPEAKER 14 :
But if you don’t first tell a person, they ain’t never going to think of doing it. So that’s where you’re wrong. You first have to speak it to guys. Hold on, hold on. You first got to speak it to guys. They hear it, then they react. Guys are reactionary. I don’t care how anybody says. We’re visual and we’re reactionary. You talk crap to me, I talk crap back.
SPEAKER 03 :
No, no, no. The reason I say that is I gave the last time we did the show, I gave some simple advice and a guy called on the radio and told me how stupid I was. I was like, dude, you’re the one in the bad relationship, not me. But hold on.
SPEAKER 14 :
What do you consider a bad relationship? Not everybody.
SPEAKER 03 :
Almost getting divorced.
SPEAKER 14 :
Just because people almost hold on. Just because people almost get divorced or break up. Oh, the problem is it’s an almost relationship.
SPEAKER 03 :
Yeah. It could be fixed.
SPEAKER 14 :
Right. So one person’s relationship we might think is crappy. But they may very well think it’s good and that’s all they know.
SPEAKER 13 :
I’d like to use like a scripture and it’s that though one plants and the other waters, it’s God who gives the increase. And so I agree with Brock in the sense that when you can give and share wisdom, the person might not be ready to hear it now, but somebody else will come along and they’ll piggyback on what you said and then it makes sense. Right. Oh, wow. Because they’re ready. You’ve planted a seed. The power of life and death are in the tongue.
SPEAKER 14 :
Guys, I’m going to say this, okay? And there’s not too much I share about my personal life because I don’t really open up like that. But when I went through a divorce, I was a douchebag. Let’s just be real about it.
SPEAKER 13 :
Me too.
SPEAKER 14 :
And any guy who says that when they went through a divorce, they weren’t being a douchebag to the person they were married to is a liar. Yeah.
SPEAKER 13 :
Yeah, it’s because people do stupid things when they’re hurt. Right. Vindictive, want to get back, want to build their ego back. For me, it was to build my ego back up.
SPEAKER 14 :
you were a douche to build up your ego that didn’t work out too good probably so what would you say is the number one reason for a good woman turning bad towards a guy is it lack of communication is it infidelity is it I think it’s put-downs. I’m telling you right now, you can have a good woman. If you break her down daily with your put-downs, she’s no longer going to be a good woman to you.
SPEAKER 13 :
Well, that was something you said at an earlier show was about respect.
SPEAKER 14 :
Oh, for sure.
SPEAKER 13 :
So you feel that respect is the most precious thing that shouldn’t be broken. For sure, yeah. But I think with many people, respect is loyalty, not infidelity.
SPEAKER 03 :
Okay.
SPEAKER 13 :
So that’s the breaking point for them.
SPEAKER 03 :
Okay. Some of it could be financial. I think guys fail to realize how separate they are from women. That’s true. So, I mean, women are boisterous. Because I’ve lived with my mom. For so long, you find out what women are like. Okay. They talk. Tell us what they’re like. They want this done. They want clean house, this, that, the other. And guys are just, you know.
SPEAKER 14 :
So basically that guy comes in with his work boots and kicks his socks off and tries to make his woman his slave. Their relationship’s toast is what you’re saying?
SPEAKER 03 :
Yeah, so if guys really wanted, you know, take yourself away from being in Mars and go to Venus. then you would probably have a better relationship.
SPEAKER 13 :
But you know, you know what? It’s important though. And maybe this touches a little bit too much on like maybe God’s plan of a man should leave his mother and father and cleave to his wife. But she is to be a help meet, not a help mate. And to help me is somebody who sees something from a different perspective so that you guys can be a complete whole.
SPEAKER 14 :
Yeah, that’s really good. uh guys it’s funny how the bible do you think the bible talks directly more to men than it does women or more to women than men because to me it seems like the bible is more directed towards like a man and how a man should run his house or present himself on a daily base right you guys don’t think so
SPEAKER 03 :
Well, it depends because I would separate it from Old Testament to New Testament. I would say that and Old Testament for sure, but then the New Testament is directed towards salvation and being saved.
SPEAKER 14 :
Okay, more than about how a man should run his home. Okay, then let me ask you this question. At the end of the day, let’s say you’re going to make a financial decision. Let’s say it’s buying a new car. We’ll say a Tesla, right?
SPEAKER 03 :
That’s where… Hold on, hold on.
SPEAKER 14 :
But let me ask the question. Do you think at the end of the day, you and your significant other, your wife, your girlfriend, come together, sit down… Need to make the decision together? Make the decision together? Yes. Or does the guy make the final decision?
SPEAKER 13 :
For a successful relationship, I believe that especially things like that, everything from household, finances, dinner… how to raise the kids, all of that stuff should be discussed openly and decided upon by both.
SPEAKER 03 :
Wow, that’s where he’s wrong. Because I’m in a good marriage. Like I gave advice last time, it says, You know, a man should love his wife like Jesus loved the church. So if men were out there loving their wives, right, like they should be, they would never be putting them down. Right. They’d always be taking them out on a date. And if they don’t like the hobbies they like, they’re still going to go anyway because their wife likes it. But what if that’s easy? Hold on. OK, but the women are what be submissive to their husband. So you can just you can talk about it all you want. But at the end of the day, he has to make the final decision. on that relationship you could talk about some women mad you could talk i’m gonna make this guy no i would go before my wife but it’s the man the man should make the final decision when it comes to family situations buying a house buying a car because at the end of the day it’s all on him if anybody knows more or would like to chime in and talk to us guys i mean this is a good topic at 303-477-5600
SPEAKER 14 :
Do you agree with Heath or do you agree with Truth? Does the guy make the final decision or are you guys co-equal or co-decided?
SPEAKER 03 :
Okay, if we have to have a question about this, when is she supposed to be submissive to you? If that’s biblical… Hold on, guys.
SPEAKER 14 :
Let me grab a pen. I’m going to take score who wins this debate. So if Brian’s saying that the woman… Listen, people. Brian’s saying that the woman is submissive to the man. The man makes a final decision. Heath says it’s a joint decision. The first person who calls in to go with Brian or Heath, what can we give them? We’ll give them a steak dinner.
SPEAKER 13 :
Steak dinner?
SPEAKER 14 :
To where? Where should we send our first caller?
SPEAKER 13 :
Oh, we like Columbine over there on Federal. We’re sending them to Columbine? Columbine Steak is a pretty good one.
SPEAKER 14 :
Okay, so the first caller who calls in at 303-477-5600, that can prove whether Brian is right or Heath is right, gets a steak dinner. We said Columbine?
SPEAKER 06 :
Yeah, sure.
SPEAKER 03 :
Columbine Steak. But I have a question for Heath. So if the Bible tells a woman that she should be submissive to her husband, When is that supposed to occur?
SPEAKER 13 :
If she has to be submissive to her husband, when does that occur? Tell me what’s more submissive, and this will be a mic drop. The one who is in the position to have to sacrifice.
SPEAKER 03 :
Oh. So if a man… Thank you, Brock.
SPEAKER 13 :
Brock sees it. So if you’re the man and you’re supposed to treat your wife as Christ does the church, then he is the submissive one. The one that will submit…
SPEAKER 03 :
Because he’s making a good point. Oh, yeah. So if you’re submissive, then you’re relieving yourself from the order that God has ordained it. It’s how God ordained it. First it said God, man, then woman. If she’s your helpmate and she’s there to help you, at the end of the day, you’re making the decision. She’s there only to help you. She’s not here to make the decisions for you.
SPEAKER 13 :
But again, Bri, and I’m going to include this to everybody instead of just a man and a wife. If we are a follower of Christ, we are to, what is it, take off our garment and kneel down and wash people’s feet. We are supposed to submit.
SPEAKER 14 :
Okay, which guy has turned around and washed his woman’s feet?
SPEAKER 13 :
I used to massage her feet because it led to sex, but it doesn’t anymore.
SPEAKER 14 :
Guys, you two went back and forth really good. Can I interject now, and I’ll let you guys go back at it? I personally feel like, and this is me, is that if a man is treating his woman the way she wants to be treated… She ain’t got no problem following anything he says.
SPEAKER 03 :
There you go.
SPEAKER 14 :
But that’s me.
SPEAKER 13 :
But then tell me. But also, hold on. I didn’t finish.
SPEAKER 14 :
I didn’t finish. Hold on. But I also do not believe that just because she’s submissive and you’re the man of the house and you say, oh, this is the house that I want to buy. That you make that final decision, that’s bull crap. You guys turn around, you look at your finances and say, this is what’s best for us both.
SPEAKER 03 :
That’s what I’m saying, though.
SPEAKER 14 :
No, that is not what you were saying.
SPEAKER 03 :
Yeah, I’m saying he needs to make the better decision for the family. He shouldn’t do that. It should be her and him. Yes, yes. So when does she be submissive to you?
SPEAKER 14 :
When you’re good to her, submissive doesn’t mean… Submissive does not mean that because you turn around and buy the house, you’re the man, you make that final decision, she just tags along like a puppy. I don’t believe that. And I’ll go on to say this. Eve was absolutely at the wrong in the garden. Adam didn’t fail. She fell.
SPEAKER 13 :
Oh, no. See, now I’m going to take it all the way back there to the garden. Oh, we got to go all the way back to the beginning, buddy. Because God gave the – who did he give the command to that he should not eat from the tree? No, he sure did. Who did he give the command to? He gave it to him. No. Yeah, exactly. He gave it to him.
SPEAKER 14 :
Oh, he got it right. No, no, no. He did. He gave it to him. gave it to Adam. She was the one talking to the snake the whole time.
SPEAKER 13 :
She was the one cheating.
SPEAKER 14 :
She was the one talking to the snake.
SPEAKER 13 :
He was so close to her, right next to her when she did that, that she said, want a bite? Want a bite?
SPEAKER 14 :
I disagree with that.
SPEAKER 13 :
You want a bite? I disagree with that.
SPEAKER 14 :
He was right next to her. There’s no time. The Bible says that they were likened to angels, so there was no time. You don’t know how long since she took that fruit did she find Adam wandering around and say, hey, try this. She was in communion with the snake, not Adam.
SPEAKER 13 :
No. See?
SPEAKER 14 :
All three of us got different opinions on this.
SPEAKER 13 :
Hey, riddle me this, Batman. If you were in a garden and you had one woman, who’d you be next to?
SPEAKER 08 :
You’d be right next to her all the time.
SPEAKER 13 :
Seeing the snails and the squirrels. You’d be hanging. You wouldn’t be anywhere else. She’s cooler than all the other animals.
SPEAKER 14 :
Yeah, that’s true.
SPEAKER 13 :
I didn’t mean to call a woman an animal.
SPEAKER 14 :
No, no, no, no. But I see what you’re saying. Her and Adam were alike. But that’s my opinion, though. I believe that if you treat your woman right, she’s submissive.
SPEAKER 03 :
And I’m not saying be submissive to your every command and your every controlling her with submission. You don’t control the woman, right? But when I say being submissive, you’re being submissive to… To his choices that he’s making to better your relationship.
SPEAKER 01 :
I’m not saying be submissive. But what if she feels like that’s wrong?
SPEAKER 03 :
If a woman is submissive, I’m not saying be submissive and go pick up all my clothes, do my dishes, do this, do that, do the other. Being submissive is at the final day, he needs to make a decision. If he’s walking accordingly, he makes the final decision that’s going to better his family’s life. Then she submits to his decision. His answer.
SPEAKER 14 :
Okay, so what if this guy don’t have a job? What if this guy don’t have a job and she’s the breadwinner in 2025?
SPEAKER 13 :
Then she gets to make the decision.
SPEAKER 14 :
Yeah, does he submit to hers?
SPEAKER 13 :
She gets to make the decision. You know what I’m saying?
SPEAKER 14 :
Let’s be real about that because money is going to dictate a lot of things in a relationship.
SPEAKER 13 :
I’m with you on that, Brock. Who makes the rules in your house? Bri. You or Mama.
SPEAKER 14 :
How are you going to call me out like that, man? But, no, I mean, seriously, think about that. If incomes are equal, cool. But if the income ain’t equal, if he’s jobless and she’s getting not going to work.
SPEAKER 03 :
Let me ask you something. Why is the marriage rate 50? Why is divorce rate so high? Let me ask you.
SPEAKER 14 :
Lack of communication.
SPEAKER 03 :
Come on, guys.
SPEAKER 14 :
I say communication.
SPEAKER 03 :
Wait, you all been divorced? Yeah, I’ve been. Oh, but I have.
SPEAKER 14 :
On the other side, I’ll tell you guys. Again, you can reach the guys at 303-477-5600. Give us a call, and we’ll see you on the other side.
SPEAKER 09 :
I don’t expect you to understand. I just hope I can explain.
SPEAKER 08 :
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SPEAKER 02 :
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SPEAKER 09 :
I can’t hide myself I don’t expect you to understand I just hope I can explain What it’s like to be a man It’s a lonely road And they don’t care about what you know It’s not about how you feel But what you provide inside that home
SPEAKER 07 :
Welcome to A Guy’s Perspective, where they discuss real-life topics that men today are dealing with, whether married, single parent, or just single. We invite you to call in to this live program with your comments and questions. And here they are. Evil woman.
SPEAKER 05 :
Evil woman. Evil woman.
SPEAKER 14 :
How’s everybody doing this afternoon? We’re KLZ 560 AM. You can reach the guys at 303-477-5600. We’re talking about how Potiphar’s wife nabbed the garment off of Joseph and why certain women in the Bible could be evil like that. So we were talking about, and we’ve got a little contest going on for everybody listening. We will… The first person who calls and either agrees with Truth and gives us a reason why or Heath and gives us a reason why at 303-477-5600. We’re giving you a steak dinner. So give us a call. And so back to what we were saying. All right. If there’s money situation, does the woman have to be submissive to the man if she’s the breadwinner?
SPEAKER 03 :
I mean, that’s a great question. It is. Because, you know, the Bible says that a man should provide for his home. Right, so he’s already failed in that first. But I think if he’s still trying to provide, right, he’s still going to work, but she still makes a little more money than him, I think he’s still in the running to be where he needs to be. Okay. Just because she makes more. She could have went to college. She could have got a better education. That doesn’t. But if he’s still trying to provide for his house, now if he’s sitting on the couch, no, you get no respect from me.
SPEAKER 14 :
Yeah, you get no respect from me either. I’m with truth on that.
SPEAKER 03 :
If a guy’s not at home, if he’s not trying to provide for his wife and kids, he’s worse than an infidel.
SPEAKER 14 :
So let me ask you truth. If your woman made more money than you, let’s say she made $200,000 more than you, are you going to be upset about that?
SPEAKER 03 :
No.
SPEAKER 14 :
So you’re going to celebrate her accomplishments and achievements.
SPEAKER 03 :
I might help her spend a little bit of her money.
SPEAKER 13 :
Probably buying some negligees for yourself.
SPEAKER 14 :
Well, let me ask you, Heath, are you going to be upset? Are you going to celebrate with her?
SPEAKER 13 :
If my wife was making more money than me?
SPEAKER 14 :
If she was the breadwinner.
SPEAKER 13 :
Oh. Wow, man, that’s a great concept. No, I’d be thrilled. Yeah. I’d be thrilled.
SPEAKER 14 :
I think I’d be thrilled too.
SPEAKER 13 :
I’d just cheer her on. Great job. And I’d be there for sure. I’d actually probably get into a bit of a support role. Oh, wow. That’s impressive. A support role to sustain that. Obviously, you know, currently I’m in like a support role where she’s not making money. Okay. Because there’s no money to be made at the farm, right? It’s a sanctuary. It’s a 501c3 nonprofit organization. She makes no money, and I’m supporting that. But if she was making half a million a year, I’m still going to be a support.
SPEAKER 14 :
Amen. Again, people call in at 303-477-5600. Tell us what you think. Should guys be jealous? Should a woman be submissive? We need to get some feedback.
SPEAKER 03 :
No, jealousy is the first thing that should really – you should get rid of in your relationship with both.
SPEAKER 14 :
Well, I was going to say, should a guy ever be jealous of his woman?
SPEAKER 03 :
No, of course not, bro. Okay. I mean, jealousy has got to go first. First thing you got to get rid of.
SPEAKER 13 :
Well, cause that’s, that’s a insecurity in the individual and it will, it will, it’s like a cancer.
SPEAKER 03 :
Yeah. So that’s what destroyed my mom and dad’s marriage. Because he was very jealous, right? And he was the one that turned out to cheat on my mom. Oh, he was projecting. Yeah, he was projecting it because he was the one with the wandering eyes.
SPEAKER 14 :
So then why do so many guys, they’ve got their significant other goes to the gym, she’s getting fit, she’s eating right, and he just wants to pop open the Coors Light and then he gets mad. No, no, seriously. It happens all the time in society. Then all of a sudden he gets mad the second she goes out with her friends.
SPEAKER 03 :
I got a good answer for that.
SPEAKER 14 :
And then gets hit on.
SPEAKER 03 :
Why is it? Listen, because people should already know these people’s lifestyles. she should have already known he was an alcoholic but what if she was dating him like i know what i know i know a couple right they got married hold on they got married he was a he was an alcoholic she knew that going into the relationship and still got married well guess what they ended up getting in a divorce because he didn’t give up the alcohol you knew that before you went into the relationship with that i disagree with that
SPEAKER 14 :
Because people change. Hold on, hold on. What if this guy’s been on the job, he gets injured, all of a sudden he’s got to have surgery and he takes pills and he gets addicted to pills?
SPEAKER 03 :
Oh, yeah. Okay, that’s a different scenario.
SPEAKER 14 :
But that’s what I’m saying. So you’re stereotyping. You’re saying that they should have known the person when they got married. That’s not always the case, guys.
SPEAKER 03 :
But you knew he was an alcoholic. You knew this going into the marriage first.
SPEAKER 14 :
People change over time. See, that’s the reason I think divorce happens because people change so much.
SPEAKER 13 :
Well, and sometimes people change not necessarily in toxicity where they get more toxic, but they just change because their paths have kind of veered them away from one another.
SPEAKER 06 :
Oh, that’s good.
SPEAKER 13 :
Instead of growing together. So my wife and I, as an example, she got the job at the farm. I’m like, sure, honey, we’ll go to the farm. So now we lived at the farm for a decade. In a fifth wheel. And so that’s that sacrifice of like, okay, well, this is what she wants, so I’m going to do this with her. Gotcha. But then we’re also changing together to where we get into a house. But she’s also changed with me for some things because I remember she didn’t want to get married when I still had like a $650,000 house. bankruptcy looming and she said until you get that handled then I’m not going to marry you and she was absolutely right in saying that but ultimately she got married because I didn’t finalize my bankruptcy until like a year or two into our marriage
SPEAKER 14 :
And people call in at 303-477-5600. So if a person is doing better in life than their significant other, and the significant other doesn’t want to keep up with the energy of this lady, or this lady doesn’t want to keep up with the energy of that guy, should they just part ways?
SPEAKER 13 :
This is where, like, communication.
SPEAKER 14 :
Because I do believe in divorce. I do. If you have no ambition or no drive and you just want to sit there and watch me do everything, that’s a little jacked up.
SPEAKER 13 :
But see, that’s what it comes down to in relationships. Like, how far will you go? Like, I mean, you got a brother. How long will you love your brother and care for your brother? I mean, we can do that for life, but when we sleep with someone, we can’t. Forgive them what?
SPEAKER 03 :
What? 70 times 7?
SPEAKER 13 :
Yeah, yeah.
SPEAKER 03 :
How many times should I forgive them?
SPEAKER 13 :
7 times?
SPEAKER 03 :
No, 70 times 7. I don’t believe you can fall in love with somebody and fall out of love. I do not believe in that. At all. Oh, you don’t.
SPEAKER 13 :
So then, Bri, that’s the thing is, are people lying to themselves about because they’re infatuated when they get into the relationship because they’re in love with the idea of being in love?
SPEAKER 03 :
Yes, I think so. I think so. get desperate and then desperation turns in to you know in a relationship with somebody they know they should not be in a relationship with yeah so it blinds you yeah love oh yeah yeah love air quotes it can can blind your logic and reason so you do both of you guys believe that you cannot fall out of love because i believe you can fall out of love with somebody
SPEAKER 13 :
then you never loved him in the first.
SPEAKER 14 :
I don’t believe that. I believe you can madly love somebody, but because of all the garbage. For example, I use the growing. If I’m continually growing and trying to better myself and better myself and better myself, but this person doesn’t want to do anything and they’re consistently bringing me down, I can fall out of love with that. I can fall out of love with my job. I can fall out of love with my car because it keeps breaking down. I can fall out of love with, you know, the state I live in.
SPEAKER 03 :
We are, well… Maybe God can fall. Do you believe God can fall out of love with somebody? Nope. Now that I do not believe. Okay, well, then you just answered your own question. Because the love is pure. What does the Bible say? The Bible says we were created in his image, and in his likeness, we were created. We were created in his image. We are not him. We are not him.
SPEAKER 14 :
We are created in his image, but we are not him. You were created to love. Call us at 303-477-5600. I’m telling you right now.
SPEAKER 03 :
Well, I mean, you could. I mean, there’s many aspects to this scenario because if somebody’s beating you, you know, physically abusing you, you know, I mean, I can see how easily somebody could fall.
SPEAKER 13 :
I got a question. How important is it that love is reciprocated?
SPEAKER 14 :
I have that in my notes. I’m glad you guys brought that up.
SPEAKER 03 :
You can’t love somebody and not be reciprocated with that same love. You can for a while, but eventually it dies. I would say… Of course that, but I would say you still love them, but you just knew you had to move on because they didn’t love you back. I mean, that’s not like you’re falling out.
SPEAKER 14 :
Okay, so then why do relations break up when two people genuinely love each other? Like you absolutely love each other. Why does one person, this is crazy we’re talking about this, why does one person just one day snap and say, you know what, I’m just not going to love this person anymore. I’ve grown out of love with them and I want to move on.
SPEAKER 03 :
Because they think it’s better, you know, greener pastures, it’s better on the other side.
SPEAKER 13 :
There’s a, there’s a thing too, which is what is it? Uh, some people are there in your life for a season, a reason or a lifetime. And so I’ve, I’ve known people, um, uh, uh, you know, exes and other, other, uh, friends and stuff that have, uh, exes, but they’re better friends than they were as lovers. So, so they’d still be there for one another if there was anything that they could do to, to serve them. But They just were no longer compatible in that capacity of being intimate and stuff.
SPEAKER 14 :
So just to recap, everybody who wants to give a call and talk to the guys at 303-477-5600, I think a person can fall out of love. Truth and Heath don’t. If a person does go through a separation, how do they rebuild themselves, though? As a guy, we can’t speculate on how a woman rebuilds herself, but how does a guy rebuild himself?
SPEAKER 13 :
It’s kind of funny because a lot of people, when people have gotten lazy or complacent in a relationship about their physique and their diet and everything, about the time they break up they start hitting the gym they start changing their they start changing um that’s true guys do that stuff all the time educate themselves they they really work on self right and that’s not a bad thing but it’s just a it’s a um a fallout of the fallout so why weren’t they doing that to begin with right they get complacent they get complacent
SPEAKER 03 :
They think that they’re going to be in love with him forever. They’re so in love with that person, they can just get away with doing whatever. Instead of trying to win their love over every single day. So if you’re supposed to love somebody like Jesus loved the church, then you would be loving her every single day. I’d be trying to win her heart over every day.
SPEAKER 13 :
I have a friend who said, his woman said, if you can’t love me at my worst, then you don’t deserve me at my best. And he said, when did I ever deserve your worst? When did I sign up for your worst?
SPEAKER 14 :
You’re asking a good question, dude. But anybody can have a bad day.
SPEAKER 13 :
No, no, no.
SPEAKER 14 :
He’s asking a good question. You’re talking their worst. Right. You know what I’m saying?
SPEAKER 13 :
Hold on.
SPEAKER 14 :
All of a sudden, you meet a young lady. She’s doing everything right, looking for a suitor. You come into her life. Then all of a sudden, she changes her outfit. She changes her appearance, her look, her income. Hold on, and I’m not going to sit back for one moment and believe just because you popped out two kids, you should look like you rolled out of bed every single day, dude.
SPEAKER 03 :
I mean, these people could bring in history into the relationship from family, from crisis, from past relationships. So, I mean, they could easily bring that into your new relationship and have a bad day.
SPEAKER 13 :
Right. And that’s the problem is if we have unresolved issues of our own, of ourselves, and we don’t work on self, then it will inevitably come out in our relationship. So we have to. I can’t change my wife for better or for worse.
SPEAKER 04 :
But guess who I can change?
SPEAKER 13 :
Guess who I can change? This guy right here, myself. All the time I can work on me. And I want to say this about me and Amber, man. We’ve had some upsets, not many, but I’ve always said that at the end of it, I am better off because of my relationship with her. So that’s what I think a good relationship is, is if you are continually growing from that relationship.
SPEAKER 03 :
I mean, think about… How many bad relationships there are out there, right? Well, how many good relationships are out there? How many people are degrading the other person?
SPEAKER 14 :
No, that’s what I’m saying.
SPEAKER 03 :
How many people are putting their significant other down?
SPEAKER 14 :
Put downs in my eyes is what changes. Yes, but you guys have heard me say it. I believe if you put her down, then she goes out there and she’s up top of some new dude next week. You did that to yourself. I don’t care how much money you got. I don’t care what you look like. I don’t care what your gym status is. I don’t care what your car is. I don’t care what your house is. If all you ever do is walk into the house and kick her like she’s a dog. And just she’s your slave. So then when she leaves your butt, don’t be boohooing like all these guys do.
SPEAKER 13 :
There’s a couple of things with like words. Obviously, they can be hurtful or they can be helpful. But there’s intention behind word to tone. And I think I mean, at least from a book that I read, it was understanding the mind of a woman. And it was about tone and how you how you speak with her that that really matters.
SPEAKER 03 :
Yeah. I mean, think about it. How many how many men are speaking life into their wife? That’s how many people are speaking, you know, truth into the booth. Yeah, how many people are speaking how beautiful they are, you know, how much I love having you in my life, how much you mean to me. I’m so excited God gave you.
SPEAKER 13 :
Okay, okay. These are invalidators.
SPEAKER 03 :
Do you want me to write a book?
SPEAKER 14 :
Do people on the radio need me to write you a book? Give us your best line that you say to your woman. Hey, give us your best line. Well, I don’t know what he’s doing. What are you doing, dude?
SPEAKER 03 :
Oh, what did you say? He’s trying to answer a call or read something.
SPEAKER 14 :
No, you’re trying to read something while we’re on air? No, I… Oh, my God. Anyway… What’s my best line? Yeah, give us your best line you said to your wife.
SPEAKER 13 :
Yeah, tell your best line. Like a best line? I’ve never said… Oh, when we first met, and it failed the line, she had some pictures of her on MySpace, of all places, people, MySpace. She had, like, blue hair and red hair, and she said, red fish, blue fish. And I was like, hey, is there a two fish? And she didn’t know what I was saying. What I was asking is, do you have a man? And so that was… There you go. That was, you know.
SPEAKER 03 :
What are you asking me what my best line is? Yeah, like line like a woman.
SPEAKER 14 :
Are you using a phone for a pickup line? Are you asking AI?
SPEAKER 03 :
No, no.
SPEAKER 14 :
I was about to say that’s pretty bad, bro.
SPEAKER 03 :
No, what’s my best pickup line to get a woman?
SPEAKER 14 :
No, just the significant other you’re with. What’s the coolest thing you’ve told her?
SPEAKER 03 :
I would probably tell her how grateful I am that God’s blessed you in my life.
SPEAKER 14 :
Oh, there you go. I’m just pretty simple and proud of you.
SPEAKER 03 :
That’s what you tell your children. I’m proud of you. You got good grades today.
SPEAKER 14 :
I’m telling you right now, when somebody tells me they’re proud of me, it makes me feel different. It makes me feel like I can accomplish whatever I’m set out to do.
SPEAKER 13 :
You know what’s that? That’s called validation. That’s true. You want to validate people for the things that they’ve done.
SPEAKER 14 :
And if anybody knows more than this, we’re running out of time. 303-477-5600. Why is it that when a breakup’s so bad, at least in men, they automatically feel like the lady’s a bad person? Why do they want to commit suicide and have mental problems? Why does that happen to some?
SPEAKER 13 :
Can I be honest? Okay. Be honest. Immaturity. Immaturity.
SPEAKER 03 :
Wow. I don’t know. I don’t know, man. People are so in love and so infatuated with that person. They feel like they’re hopeless of ever finding somebody like them. Which is immature. No, no, man. Yes. No, it happens all the time. When women leave men, they’re like, if I can’t have you, no one can. That’s not immature, bro. Yes, it is. It sounds immature to me.
SPEAKER 13 :
Those are the thoughts and things that I did. That’s hopelessness. Listen to me, B. That’s a good word. Those are the thoughts and things that I did when I was early in relationships. I don’t do that now. Grown men are doing it. Because they’re immature. They haven’t dated enough. They haven’t experienced enough. They haven’t opened up enough to communicate. So they’re not confident in themselves. And when that’s stripped from them, they don’t believe that they did it wrong. They want to point the finger and then boo-hoo and…
SPEAKER 14 :
If anybody knows better, call us at 303-477-5600. I agree with you. I think it’s immature. But I also agree with truth. It’s hopelessness. You feel like you’re abandoned. You’re on an island all on your own when there’s half the world joining you.
SPEAKER 13 :
But here’s the thing, man. So say there’s a couple in a relationship for 20 years married together, and then all of a sudden it just comes crashing down. and then they’re focused, they turn inward on themselves and this darkness and all that, but what they ought to do is recall all the times that they either invalidated All the times that they either denied or that they didn’t step up or that they didn’t lead their household. They need to recognize all of that stuff that led to it. The straw that broke the camel back isn’t… It’s the little things over time that lead to that.
SPEAKER 14 :
Because doesn’t the Bible say that something like the little foxes spoil the vine or something like that? I think, at least for me… I think what it is, is just like you said, it’s a combination of these things that a guy doesn’t, and first we started talking about evil women in Bible, we ended up reflecting on guys. But I mean, if you think about it, guys do a bunch of that cause their relationships to go south, then they wonder, like, what in the world? Because you didn’t take my advice. But in the same sense, hold on, but in the same sense, a guy can do everything right. You just told me we couldn’t earlier. Listen, listen, listen. This is for our listeners. A guy can try his best and do his best, but if a woman wants to find fault in you, she’s going to find it. Because all of us have a past, and if she wants to dig that crap up, She’s going to dig it up.
SPEAKER 13 :
So then let me lay it back at the man’s feet. It was his choice in that woman that led to the failure. Wow. If he would have been wise and listened to God when he chose her. No, I prayed for – when I went through divorce, directly thereafter, I was going out, dating a lot, sleeping around a lot. But then I knew – I knew what I wanted and what I needed, and I asked God for Amber, really. I asked him for the perfect person in my life, and she came. And then it came with trials. We almost got separated before we ever got married. Married by a pastor of a church that was calling me wicked.
SPEAKER 14 :
But let me ask you this. Should a woman ever look at a guy’s past? If you get into a relationship, does a guy need to earn trust or is he automatically given trust?
SPEAKER 03 :
You should be automatically given it. I believe you should be giving it until you break it.
SPEAKER 13 :
Yeah, so it’s kind of like tips at a restaurant. You start off at 20%, and if you start doing bad, I’m going to take it down.
SPEAKER 03 :
You know why I give the reasons behind what I’m saying is because I don’t want to be that guy, right? I don’t want to be that guy that falls madly in love with a woman. Right. She trusts you. You know, she loves you. And then you you don’t be the man that you’re supposed to be. And then she ends up leaving you at the end. And then you look back and you’re like, well, I could have done it. No. So what I’m going to do is I’m going to win my woman over every time.
SPEAKER 14 :
single and i and i agree with that a hundred percent are you trying to win your woman over every day yeah but nobody’s perfect nobody’s perfect i don’t care i don’t care what anybody says any guy that can sit back and say that they’re perfect is a liar you can only do your best in a relationship yeah that’s what i’m saying so if a woman wants to find hold on hold on you can do your best for let’s say two years But you make one mistake, does she have the right to use that mistake against you? I’m not saying go out and cheat on her. I’m not saying that.
SPEAKER 03 :
Yeah, if you cheat on her, that’s dumb. You’re toast.
SPEAKER 14 :
I’m saying what if you came home from work, you had a bad day, you slammed the door, you break the mailbox. Does that give grounds to leave the person?
SPEAKER 03 :
No, man. But people do all the time. Not over that. Dude, people lead over smaller things.
SPEAKER 13 :
That’s a culmination.
SPEAKER 03 :
That’s right, of little things. Yeah, because you’re not.
SPEAKER 13 :
To agree with Bri, that’s why it does matter that every day we wake up, we give our best effort, not only toward life and friends and relationships and our significant other, but toward God. Right? We’ve got to give our best. With every breath, we’ve got to give our best.
SPEAKER 14 :
Can I be the first to admit this on air? Admit it. um the first to admit on air is number one this you need to stop looking at his phone and number two um my relationship with the lord sucks dude like what does it yeah it does because you know what i will i am better at i’m better at telling my woman how good she is than i am at even telling the lord thank you how good he is yes i i i’m i’m the first to say it like like and so i think if i’m a sucky christian and god’s still there for me and he helps me out and hooks me up and i don’t know why he does i can’t quite figure that part out yeah um especially when it seems like i treat everybody so much better you know what i’m saying i treat everybody so much better than god yeah at least that’s how i feel that’s true we need to but we all feel like that we need to okay so then if you feel like that then and you said we’re in god’s image in the relationship no we all feel like we’re not doing enough for the lord let’s get that straight but do you ever feel like you’re not doing enough for your woman right i mean you know what i’m saying like like it just i don’t know i just feel like i do better for my woman than i do for god so that makes sense so did you give your woman a back rub the other day and massage your feet but this is this is the next thing i’m going to say i didn’t give god no prayer time yeah well that’s a personal choice but that’s what i’m saying i feel like i communicate better with my woman than i do the lord But that’s me. How do you guys feel about that?
SPEAKER 13 :
Here’s the thing. I want to throw a curveball real quick before we get into the show. That was a deep discussion. But there are some people who, you know, they have God and they have their relationship, but the brokenness in their relationship, they try to take to God, but they’re unwilling to do the work in the relationship. See what I mean?
SPEAKER 14 :
You know what I wish we could do a subject on? Do you ever feel like you take advantage of God? No. You know what I’m saying? Next week, people, we’re going to do something. It’s going to be different. We’re going to talk about taking advantage of the Lord.
SPEAKER 03 :
How about loving the Lord?
SPEAKER 14 :
How about we do a show on that? Because I think I take advantage of God. I think I take advantage of His goodness all the time.
SPEAKER 13 :
Reap all the benefits. And we have…
SPEAKER 14 :
Another thing, another thing, this is weird how this is transitioning. Another thing I’ve done is I’ve lied to the Lord before. I’ve been in the prayer and I’m like, God, I didn’t do that. No, I didn’t do that.
SPEAKER 03 :
No, I have.
SPEAKER 14 :
Have you guys ever done that?
SPEAKER 03 :
I’m like, I broke up. Not a vow. What’s it when you make a commitment? Covenant? No, no. What did they do? When you tell the Lord you’re going to do something.
SPEAKER 14 :
A commitment, a covenant, your word. All I know is I was driving down the road, right? And I’m sitting there yelling at some fool in the other car. And then this was probably like months ago. And I’m like, God, I wasn’t really yelling at that guy. And I’m thinking to myself, why am I lying about like. I think it’s crazy the way we do things, dude. But we should do a segment on that. Do we ever take advantage of God?
SPEAKER 03 :
Yeah. Because he’s so merciful and graceful. Wow. In the back of your mind, you’re like, you know God’s going to forgive you.
SPEAKER 14 :
And that’s a bad place to be.
SPEAKER 03 :
Or is that a good place to be? No, that’s a bad place to be.
SPEAKER 14 :
Why would that be a bad place?
SPEAKER 03 :
Because it says, what did it say? I want to keep it in the back of my mind knowing God’s there. God forbid that we should sin that his grace may abound more abundantly.
SPEAKER 12 :
Paul’s talking about that.
SPEAKER 14 :
For everybody, it was a good show. Again, this is the guy’s perspective. You can always reach out and talk to the guys at 303-477-5600. You can go to our Facebook page. You can go to our social media platforms. We’d like to hear from you guys. One more thing, Brian.
SPEAKER 03 :
I want to say one last thing to the listeners. Listen, just love your wife like Jesus loved the church.
SPEAKER 14 :
That’s good.
SPEAKER 03 :
And speak life to your woman every single day.
SPEAKER 14 :
Don’t be putting her down. Don’t be putting her down.
SPEAKER 03 :
Give her a back rub every night. Don’t make her give you one. Bye.
